Hugh John Montgomery was born at
Cookham Dean, Berkshire, on 30 December 1946, son of John Michael Montgomery, a member of the
Colonial Service, and schoolmistress Marsali, daughter of
stockjobber Francis Joseph Seal. She married John Montgomery after the death of her first husband,
Roger de Winton Kelsall Winlaw, in 1942 on active service in the
Royal Air Force. Hugh was the first child of her marriage to John Montgomery. Through his father, Hugh Massingberd was a great-grandson of
women's-rights pioneer
Emily Langton Massingberd. He was a great-great-grandson of Charlotte Langton (born Wedgwood) who was herself a granddaughter of the potter and philanthropist
Josiah Wedgwood and a sister of Emma Wedgwood, wife of
Charles Darwin. His boyhood enthusiasms included
cricket, reading, horseracing, and showbusiness. To inherit their estate, in 1963 John and his son Hugh were obliged to adopt the name of Massingberd, and both decided to become Montgomery-Massingberds. However, in 1992 Hugh abandoned his original surname and thereafter was known simply as Hugh Massingberd. It is said that as the waiter recited the various items available on the menu, Massingberd simply nodded throughout. In 1972 Massingberd married Christine Martinoni, with whom he had a daughter, Harriet, and a son, Luke. They were divorced in 1979 and he married, secondly, Caroline Ripley in 1983. Massingberd was known for his wit in his private life as well as in his public life as a writer. A friend once asked him, during one of Massingberd's low moods, what would cheer him up; after some thought, Massingberd replied, "To sing patriotic songs in drag before an appreciative audience." Massingberd was diagnosed with cancer in 2004 and died in London on Christmas Day, 2007, five days before his 61st birthday. ==Career==