Lapidus was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York. He was born to immigrant parents, who instilled a sense of the value of education in him and his brother. He attended Jefferson High School in Brooklyn, where a history teacher helped him prepare for admissions tests and suggested he pursue Asian history studies. Lapidus went on to college and graduate school at
Harvard. As an undergraduate at Harvard, he took a course in Middle Eastern history taught by
Sir Hamilton Gibb. He enjoyed the class and liked the instructor, who encouraged him to pursue social sciences in addition to history. Lapidus continued taking classes in Middle Eastern and Islamic history, and upon graduation entered a career in academia. Lapidus was for many years Chairman of the Center for Middle Eastern Studies at Berkeley. He is a past president and director of the
Middle East Studies Association (1984), and has served on numerous professional administrative, advisory and review committees including Visiting Committees for
Georgetown and
Harvard Universities, the
Rockefeller Foundation, and the Institute for Advanced Studies. He was a member of United States Middle East Studies delegation to People's Republic of China. He has served on the editorial boards of the
Journal of Urban History, Journal of the Economic and Social History of the Orient, and the Journal of Early Modern Europe. Lapidus regularly visits Rome and other European cities with his wife, the writer
Brenda Webster. Over the course of his academic career, he has done research in England, France, Turkey, Egypt, Syria, former Soviet Union, Pakistan, and India, and has traveled extensively in Muslim regions of North Africa, the Middle East, former Soviet Central Asia, India, Indonesia and western China. ==Photography==