Born in
Arecibo, Puerto Rico in 1969, Vilar is the granddaughter of
Puerto Rican nationalist Lolita Lebrón, who participated in
an assault on the
United States House of Representatives in 1954. After her mother's suicide in 1977, she attended boarding school in New Hampshire at age 15 before enrolling at
Syracuse University where she married her literature professor, Pedro Cuperman. Her work ''
The Ladies' Gallery: A Memoir of Family Secrets (originally published in 1996) was a Philadelphia Inquirer
and Detroit Free Press
notable book of the year, a finalist for the Mind Book of the Year Award and the Latino Book Award. Her memoir, Impossible Motherhood: Testimony of an Abortion Addict'' (published in 2009), revealed that the author had 15 abortions in 17 years. Vilar received death threats after its publication. In 2007, Vilar founded the Colorado and Puerto Rico based non-profit Americas for Conservation + the Arts and is its current executive director. In 2010, Vilar was awarded a
Guggenheim fellowship for her nonfiction writing. Also that year, she gave the keynote at the 2010 National Convention of State Senators and Legislators Hispanic Caucus on Latino Mental Health, “Severe Depressive Disorder: Overcoming Adversity and Stigma” where she talks about the trauma she experienced growing up and in her marriage. After
Hurricane Maria in 2017, Vilar founded the Resilience Fund through her non-profit to help farmers restore their farms. ==Works==