During Etheldreda's life, and together with her first husband, Charles Miskin Laing, in 1898 and 1903, they had two daughters, Janet and Iris, respectively. From 1907 onwards, photographs were taken of his daughters using the autochrome process. She photographed her daughters in the garden of
Bury Knowle House: some examples of these photographs include
Two girls on a balcony,
Girl with a parasol sitting on a bench,
Two girls together in a garden,
Girl with a bouquet of flowers.
Janet Marian Laing In early 1898, Janet was born in Oxford.
Iris Carola Laing Iris was born at Bury Knowle House in 1903 and on June 16 of the same year was baptized at Holy Trinity Church in Headington Quarry. In 1940, at the age of 37, Iris married Captain Donald Alexander Frazer, changing her name to Iris Carola Frazer. On June 15, 1955, Donald died in London at the age of 59. Approximately 3 years later, in 1958, she married Sir John Randolph Shane Leslie, 3rd Baronet of Glaslough, who was 72 years old. He styled himself Sir Shance Leslie and was a relative of Sir Winston Churchill. This was her last marriage, and they remained together until Shane's death in 1971. Iris died a little over 20 years later, in 1994, at the age of 90, dying childless. In 1978, Iris, then 75 years old, dated these portraits to 1908, estimating that she appeared to be about five years old. However, she may just as easily have been seven or eight, which seems more plausible when considering the history of the Autochrome process and Laing’s exhibition record. ==Gallery==