In 1902, at
St. James Cathedral, Toronto, Ross married his first wife, Etheldine (Ethel) Alice Matthews, daughter of
Wilmot Deloui Matthews (1850–1919), one of Toronto's most influential businessmen, and his wife Annie Jane Love. One of Ethel's brothers was married to Annabel Osler, daughter of
Sir Edmund Boyd Osler, and the other married the New York City socialite Constance Greening. Ethel's sister lived with the Rosses for some time in Nova Scotia before marrying Bruce MacKinnon and moving to
Switzerland. The Rosses were the parents of a son and a daughter: • James Kenneth Matthews Ross (1903–1966). Known as Jim, he was educated at
Bishop's College School. He shared his father's passion for racing and in 1956 published a book entitled
Boots and Saddles: The Story of the Fabulous Ross Stable in the Golden Days of Racing. He married Marjorie Arnott Ballantyne (d. 1974), of Montreal. Following her husband's death, she took up residence at the
Ritz-Carlton, Montreal. They had one daughter, Joan. • Hylda Anne May Ross, married Commander Duncan McIntyre Hodgson,
RCN, of Montreal, and had three daughters. He was the son of 'Archie' Archibald Arthur Hodgson (1869–1960), the scorer of the winning goal for the
Montreal Hockey Club in the first
Stanley Cup Final. His mother, Mary, was a first cousin of his father and a daughter and co-heiress of
Duncan McIntyre. As mentioned earlier, Duncan Hodgson broke his father-in-law's world record by catching a 997-lb.
Bluefin tuna from a rowing boat with rod and line, without a harness. In 1930, two years after Ross was declared bankrupt, Ethel divorced him. She continued to live in Montreal, remarrying a
Boston attorney, which also ended in divorce. Ross was saved from
penury by a trust fund. A few years before, the home he had built for himself on Peel Street was valued at over a million dollars but by 1930, with Montreal in a recession following the
Wall Street crash, there were no takers for a mansion that size. As an act of charity Ross's friend, the 2nd
Lord Shaughnessy, purchased it from him for $51,000 in 1935. Ross briefly moved into an apartment before leaving for Jamaica, where he met and married in 1931 his new wife, Iris de Lisser, the daughter of a Jamaican planter and sister of
H. G. de Lisser. He bought a house on
Montego Bay (that after his death was purchased by
Lord Beaverbrook) and was made
deputy governor of the island. Apart from occasional visits to Montreal, he remained in Jamaica, fishing and sailing until his death at his home in 1951 – happier (he told his confidantes), than when he was rich. In accordance with his wishes, J. K. L. Ross was
buried at sea. On its formation in 1976, he was inducted posthumously into the Canadian Horse Racing Hall of Fame. == See also ==