On February 8, 1896 Parsons was married to author
Frances Theodora (née Smith) Dana (1861–1952), the daughter of New York tea merchant Denton Smith and widow of naval officer William Starr Dana (who died during the
1890 flu epidemic). Before his early death, they were the parents of two children: • James Russell Parsons III (1896–1970), who married Alice "Margaret" Chubb, a daughter of
Hendon Chubb and granddaughter of
Thomas Caldecot Chubb, founder of
Chubb & Son. • Dorothea Parsons (1900–1902), who died young. Following his death in an automobile accident on December 5, 1905 in
Mexico City, his body was returned to the United States, where he was buried at
Albany Rural Cemetery in
Menands, New York. His widow lived until 1952. ==References==