Jane Baillie Welsh was born in
Haddington, East Lothian (then Haddingtonshire), 14 July 1801, to Grace Caplegill and John Welsh (1770–1819).
Marriage to Thomas Carlyle 1829 Jane's tutor
Edward Irving had introduced her to Carlyle in 1821, with whom she came to have a mutual romantic attraction. The couple married in 1826 and moved to
21 Comely Bank,
Edinburgh. In 1828, they moved to
Craigenputtock. Thomas was often busy writing, while Jane remained dutiful in doing the housework. In 1834, the Carlyles moved to
5 Cheyne Row,
Chelsea, London. Jane took on the added job of keeping the neighbourhood quiet so that her husband could write undisturbed.
Phyllis Rose wrote "the quintessential expression of Jane's role within the marriage was her continuing battle to protect her husband from the crowing of cocks." In a letter to her husband written in 1844, Jane wrote about this arrangement. "I slept much better last night—in spite of cocks of every variety of power, a dog, and a considerable rumblement of carts! but the evil of these things was not doubled and tripled for me by the reflection that YOU were being kept awake by them". Despite such remarks, the marriage was ultimately loving, as another letter from a week later shows: "I am always wondering since I came here how I can ever in my angriest moods talk about leaving you for good and all—for to be sure if I
were to leave you today
on that principle I should need absolutely to go back tomorrow
to see how you were taking it!" Their voluminous correspondence has been published, and the letters show that the couple's affection for each other was marred by frequent quarrels.
Samuel Butler once wrote: "It was very good of God to let Carlyle and Mrs. Carlyle marry one another and so make only two people miserable instead of four."
Margaret Oliphant, a personal friend of the Carlyles, opined that the marriage's "canker" came chiefly from Jane. Carlyle's biographer
James Anthony Froude posthumously published his opinion, based on "gossip and rumor" circulated by
Geraldine Jewsbury, that the marriage remained unconsummated. This notion was disputed by members of the Carlyle family,
Oliphant,
James Crichton-Browne and others. Historian Paul Johnson notes in
Creators that she not only irked her husband but made prickly comments about others. One target was fellow female writer
George Eliot (Mary Ann Evans), whose decision to live openly with her married lover
George Henry Lewes had scandalised London society. Seeing the pair at the theatre one evening, Jane remarked of Eliot, "Poor soul! There never was a more absurd miscalculation than
her constituting herself an improper
woman. She looks Propriety personified. Oh, so
slow!" The Poetry Foundation's biography of
Leigh Hunt says that his famous poem "Jenny Kiss'd Me" was inspired by Carlyle's wife. Jane was jealous of a friendship her husband had with the socialite and hostess
Lady Harriet Mary Montagu (later Lady Ashburton). Despite the platonic nature of the friendship, Jane expressed her jealousy and anger in a letter dated in 1856.
Relationship with Geraldine Jewsbury Jane had a long friendship and correspondence with the writer
Geraldine Jewsbury. The two women first met in 1841, when Jewsbury's letters to Carlyle expressing admiration for his work and her religious doubts prompted him to extend an invitation to 5 Cheyne Row. Jewsbury was going through a depressive time, but she also contacted Thomas in the hopes of entering the literary realm in England. When Carlyle floated the idea of a second visit in 1843, Jane hesitated, finally admitting to Carlyle: Why I am afraid that having her beside me from morning till night would be dreadfully ''wearing'!''" She complained of how Jewsbury was "always in a state of emotion! dropping hot tears on my hands, and watching me and fussing me". While Jane's letters were destroyed by Jewsbury in keeping with their agreement to destroy their correspondence before their deaths, Jane's sudden death prevented her from destroying Jewsbury's half. Jewsbury's letters evince her passionate feelings for Jane: "I feel towards you much more like a lover than a female friend". They often had disagreements about common social issues of the era such as the place of men in women's lives and the purpose of women in general. Jewsbury was not opposed to marriage, but she thought man and woman should be equal in marriage; she did not witness that with the Carlyles, and criticised him for it. Jane often tried to set up Jewsbury with suitable bachelors in London. However, none of them stuck (Jewsbury never married). When they were on good terms, Jane helped Jewsbury with many of her literary works, including two of Jewsbury's most popular novels,
Zoe: the History of Two Lives, and
The Half Sisters, which Jewsbury wanted to dedicate to her. In 1857, Jewsbury became romantically involved with
Walter Mantell, and the two women became distant. But near the end of her life, when Jane was very ill, the two reconnected. When Jane died, Jewsbury spoke of her as "the friend of my heart".
Virginia Woolf based a 1929 article in the
Times Literary Supplement on Jewsbury's letters to Jane Carlyle, later published in
The Second Common Reader. ==Letters==