On a trip she intended to be to
Shanghai, in 1935, she met General MacArthur aboard the , which was to stop first in
Manila, where MacArthur would disembark. Despite the age difference — she was nearly nineteen years younger than he — they began a permanent relationship in Manila, and married in
New York City on April 30, 1937, during Gen. MacArthur's trip home to build support for the defense of the
Philippines. This was to be Gen. MacArthur's last trip to the mainland United States for the next 14 years, when he was relieved from duty by President
Truman. His only other visits to U.S. soil between 1937 and 1951 were a 1944 strategy meeting in Honolulu, Hawaii with President
Roosevelt and Admiral
Nimitz and a 1950 meeting with President Truman on
Wake Island. Jean was MacArthur's second wife and he described her as his "constant friend, sweetheart, and devoted support." They had one son,
Arthur MacArthur IV (1938–), and were married until Douglas' death in 1964. == Wartime ==