He was the son of the pottery owner
Edward Fisher Bodley (1815–1881), and his wife Mary Ridgway Bodley, and brother of the pottery owner
Edwin James Drew Bodley. He was educated at
Mill Hill School and studied at
Balliol College, Oxford, from 1873 to 1876. An active
Freemason, he approached
Oscar Wilde, then also an undergraduate, and introduced him to a Masonic Lodge in Oxford.
Richard Ellmann attributes to Bodley a long, spiteful
New York Times article that appeared on Wilde, on 21 January 1882. "Bodelino" was a member of
James McNeill Whistler's circle in Paris. He was secretary to
Charles Dilke, from 1880. Initially Dilke thought him frivolous, but he came to play a major part in Dilke's official work and private life. He was a witness in the divorce case that broke Dilke's career. He subsequently believed that Dilke's downfall was caused by
Joseph Chamberlain. A personal friend of
Cardinal Manning ("almost certainly his most intimate non-Catholic friend", and Manning's preferred choice as biographer), he was his biographer only in a short work. ==Political writing==