John Buckmaster was born on 18 July 1915 in
Frinton-on-Sea where his mother, actress
Gladys Cooper, had bought a cottage. Most people had fled from Frinton at the start of World War I, but Cooper kept her daughter, Joan (b. 1910), and baby John there in the care of a nanny, Sarah Aves, while she herself stayed in London to be near the theatre and going down to be with them at weekends. His father was Herbert John Buckmaster, a veteran of the
Boer War, known as "Buck", who founded
Buck's Club and would later put the 'Buck' into
Buck's Fizz. Herbert Buckmaster enlisted as soon as the war started and was given a commission in the
12th Reserve Regiment of Cavalry. After an initial posting in
Aldershot, he went to France with the
Royal Horse Guards in early 1915, where he remained for three-and-a-half years. During the war, Cooper wrote daily to her husband, giving him regular updates on their two children, including their son's stages of development from infant to toddler and little boy. Cooper continued to be widely photographed on
picture-postcards in which her children also featured. At the end of the war, the couple found that they had drifted apart; they divorced amicably on 12 December 1921 and remained close friends for the rest of their lives. John Buckmaster attended
Elstree preparatory school where, according to his father, he was very happy; he played tennis and was in both cricket and football
elevens. Throughout his childhood, he was regularly reported in the Press as an interesting and decorative news item. At the age of seven, a picture shows him dressed as a naval cadet and carrying a telescope under one arm. At nine he stands, racket in hand, beside his mother at the Frinton Juvenile Lawn Tennis Tournament, in which he was the youngest boy competitor. A year later, with boxing gloves on, he is facing the ex-
welterweight champion of Europe,
Johnny Summers, who had taught him for two years, and with whom he sparred at the
Brighton Hospital Tournament in July 1925. On 14 June 1927, Cooper married
Sir Neville Pearson, and gave birth to their daughter, Sally, 1929. Buckmaster, now at
Eton College, found the second marriage difficult to accept and became a difficult teenager. Although handsome, witty and talented, he was sensitive and highly strung. Of Cooper's three children, he was emotionally closest to his mother and proved deeply affected by her remarriage, as he and Pearson disliked each other intensely. In early 1934, when his mother left England to expand her stage career into North America, Buckmaster moved to a flat in
Chelsea with his nanny, Sarah Aves, to keep home for him. While in the USA, Cooper met and eventually married
Philip Merivale on 30 April 1937, after obtaining a divorce from Pearson on 16 October 1936. They lived mainly in California and worked extensively in both
Hollywood and
Broadway, also supporting the
Red Cross British Relief Fund and running a small theatre for servicemen during
World War II. John Buckmaster was very fond of his stepfather Merivale, upon whose death, on 12 March 1946, he wrote a tribute poem and left it on his mother's desk one morning. ==Career==