It was announced on the June 22, 2009 episode of the show that the couple were separating, and that
divorce proceedings had begun. Gosselin then began looking for a new
apartment in
New York City, reportedly visiting
Donald Trump-owned
Trump Place in
Manhattan's
Upper West Side. Gosselin stated that it is Kate who wanted the divorce, while Kate stated that "Jon's activities" left her with "no choice but to file legal procedures in order to protect" herself and the children. Gosselin released a statement in response, noting that his wife was the first to make a legal move, and speaking of his continuing love for his children. Speculation rose that Gosselin's relationship with Hailey Glassman, the daughter of Kate's
plastic surgeon, was the cause for the divorce, but Glassman denied the speculation, saying that her relationship with Gosselin began only after Gosselin and Kate had been separated for months. On August 13, 2009, the police were called to the Gosselin family home in
Wernersville, Pennsylvania, after Gosselin and Kate were engaged in a heated argument. She arrived at the home during his time with their eight children because she did not approve of the babysitter he was using. No arrests were made and no charges were filed against either party. On September 29, 2009, TLC announced that, as of November 3, 2009,
Jon & Kate Plus 8 would change its name to
Kate Plus 8. Gosselin would continue to appear on the show, but less frequently. However, on October 1, 2009,
People.com reported that Gosselin filed a legal action against TLC to prevent the show from resuming and would consider the entry of production crews into the family home as
criminal trespassing. The final episode of
Jon & Kate Plus 8 aired on November 23, 2009, announced by TLC three days earlier. In late September 2009, Gosselin filed paperwork seeking to stall the
divorce for 90 days, saying, "I regret my conduct since Kate and I separated ... I used poor judgment in publicly socializing with other women so soon." Among the terms of the divorce was a child support order for $22,000 a month. Earlier in the month, Gosselin's girlfriend, Hailey Glassman, announced that she broke up with Gosselin because she discovered during a deposition in his lawsuit against TLC that he had been unfaithful to her by having a relationship with Kate Major, a reporter for
The Star tabloid. Since the divorce, Gosselin has had a difficult relationship with his ex-wife, which has repeatedly made headlines. He is also estranged from most of his children, as Cara, Mady, Alexis, Aaden, Leah, and Joel have cut off all contact with him. Alexis, Aaden, Leah, and Joel moved with Kate to North Carolina when she relocated to the state in March 2021. The twins are currently both away at college in New York, with Cara at
Fordham University and Mady at
Syracuse University. However, Cara and Mady reside with Kate when home from their respective colleges. The only children Gosselin sees are Hannah and Collin, as both children now live with him. On August 22, 2017, the police were called to an orthodontist's office in
Wyomissing, Pennsylvania, after Gosselin and Kate got into a custody dispute over one of their sextuplet daughters. It was reported that either Gosselin or Kate took their then 13-year-old daughter to the orthodontist and the argument erupted over who would be taking her home. No one was arrested, and in the end, Gosselin took the daughter home while Kate was referred to
Berks County District Attorney's office for a more clear interpretation of the child custody agreement. It was later reported that the sextuplet daughter involved in the dispute may have been Hannah. In August 2018, Gosselin revealed in an
Instagram live video that Hannah was "permanently" living with him; there has been an ongoing custody battle with Kate over their daughter. It was reported that in April 2018, a judge awarded custody of Hannah to Gosselin. Kate would appeal this decision on May 4, 2018. The judge denied the appeal on June 14, 2018, as Kate "did not present legal argument to justify this Court's jurisdiction," according to court documents. On October 24, 2018, Gosselin and his attorney filed papers for physical and legal custody of Collin. They claimed that it would be in Collin's best interest to live with his father upon his release from an inpatient center, where Kate enrolled him in 2016. On December 4, 2018, Gosselin won sole physical and legal custody of Collin, as Kate and her attorney failed to appear. It was reported on December 26, 2018, that Collin was released from the inpatient center and returned home with Gosselin for good. As of 2018, Gosselin and his ex-wife are no longer in communication, except through their attorneys. ==Break-in==