Like Elvis, Spreckels describes herself as having been like a sister to Presley when he was about 21 and she was three years older. According to her own account, she was "a companion, confidante and keeper of secrets in the exciting days of his early career". At that time, "Elvis was surrounded by the first wave of what would become known as the
Memphis Mafia." She says that she "was with him and the guys all the time." They drove bumper cars in
Las Vegas, rode horses in
California and hung out at
Graceland. "There wasn't a crowd then, just a few guys," and she emphasizes that she "had nothing to do with being a yes man for him and obviously he trusted me." She also claims that Presley told her secrets "that I never told and will never tell." In 1956, the singer sat for a portrait she drew. He inscribed it, "To Judy Spreckels, I love you, baby. Elvis Presley". On June 11, 1956,
Time magazine ironically reported: :Scampering aboard a plane in
Los Angeles, impulsive Judy Spreckels, 24, ex-wife of Sugar Daddy Adolph B.
Spreckels Jr., was soon in Memphis and the offices of the daily
Press-Scimitar. She had learned that a photograph, made last month in Las Vegas, showing her with dreamboat Groaner Elvis Presley, 21, had appeared in the newspaper, and she had hopped to Tennessee to buy some copies of that edition. Was she in love with Presley (TIME, May 14) ? "Oh, no, he's too young," cooed Judy. On May 28, 1956 The Memphis Press-Scimitar was more complete : Spreckels added "Just call me an admirer. I think he's the greatest". When Presley and Spreckels visited
Graceland, she said, "We stayed up all night listening to Elvis singing and playing the piano. He liked to sing
hymns. ... He introduced me to
Amazing Grace." In March 1958, when Elvis left home for the Army, Spreckels was among the friends who were in Memphis, such as Anita Wood, Patsy Presley and Mrs Travis Smith. She also went to the funeral of his mother Gladys in August 1958, saying "I have never seen anyone as sad as Elvis was ... He grieved. He cried continuously. We were in the front hall at Graceland, and he stood there hugging me for a half-hour. He was crying and crying and crying. It was the saddest thing I'd ever seen." In a letter of August 25, 1958, Presley's manager
Colonel Tom Parker confirms that Spreckels came "to Memphis to be with Elvis for the Funeral [,] this was very kind of her also. And I know Elvis did appreciate this so very much." In 1956, during Presley's first engagement in Las Vegas, visitors to the shows included Spreckels,
Hal Wallis (who had just signed Elvis to his first movie deal) and entertainers
Ray Bolger,
Phil Silvers and
Liberace. In later years, Spreckels still attended Presley's Las Vegas concerts, and he would stop the show to introduce her to the audience. She had married by then and so had he. Her second husband was B.E. Blackwell, a polo player heir to a cannery fortune. On September 2, 1974 Elvis introduced Spreckels and explained their story to the audience during his Vegas midnight show : ”... She gave me a four-star black sapphire ring that I kept until Priscilla and I were married. And Priscilla wore it as an engagement ring. This lady here did it, twenty years ago… She’s been married, in the hills, flying jets, riding horses and all that kind of stuff, She’s a wild woman, but she did that and she comes by every once in a while to check on me…” ==Writer, publisher and trial historian==