Darling was born in 1956 at 8 College Street,
Winchester—the house
Jane Austen died in. Her parents were John Ramsay Darling, a science teacher at
Winchester College and Patricia Rosemary, who was a nurse and a
Quaker. Darling later wrote about how the house's Austen connection meant they were constantly visited. She later wrote that as a teenager, she had put up anti-apartheid and pro-choice posters in her bedroom windows earning her a complaint from the Jane Austen Society. Darling attended
Winchester High School for Girls and
St Christopher School. One of her friends at that time was the "groovy and alternative"
Robyn Hitchcock, a pupil at Winchester College. She was expelled at 15 and attended
Falmouth School of Art. ==Writing career==