She married
Mark Gordon, a Hollywood producer whose films and TV series include
Saving Private Ryan,
Speed, ''Grey's Anatomy
, and Criminal Minds'', on November 8, 1997. The couple divorced in 2003 On June 25, 2011, she married
Charles Spencer, 9th Earl Spencer at
Althorp. In 2016, Lady Spencer assisted her husband with restoration projects to rejuvenate the estate's historic gardens — the first major transformation in 350 years. A statement on the Althorp website described the project as "ambitious," highlighting her leadership in the extensive redesign of the Oval Lake, where Diana, Princess of Wales is laid to rest. The redesign included extensive landscaping, and revitalized a significant area of the estate's grounds. In June 2024, it was announced that the Earl and Countess had separated and planned to divorce. It was reported at the same time that the Earl had become the partner to Professor
Cat Jarman, with whom he was co-hosting the podcast
The Rabbit Hole Detectives. Spencer's respondent filings state that Jarman's husband, Tom Jarman, had volunteered the MS information to the Countess, indicating that it was not a secret. The lawsuit was settled in December 2025, via a
Part 36 provision, Earl Spencer was ordered to pay the legal costs, estimated to be in excess of £2 million, in compliance with the financial arrangements of the Spencers' divorce arbitration. Their divorce was finalized in December 2025. ==References==