During her time in Saint Petersburg, Desnitski became a popular
socialite in Russian high society. In March 1905, she attended a grand ball hosted by
Tsar Nicholas II where she met her future husband,
Chakrabongse Bhuvanat. Despite both being in love with each other, Desnitski volunteered as nurse in
Manchuria where she served in the
Russo-Japanese War and was awarded three medals. During her time away, Chakrabongse wrote numerous letters to her. Following her return from Manchuria, he proposed to Desnitski, of which she accepted on the condition that she would be his only wife as Siamese society tolerated
polygamy for royals. This condition was accepted by Chakrabongse. The couple sought permission from one of Desnitski's brother, Ivan. However, due to Russian priests refusing to join a Buddhist and Orthodox together in marriage, the two travelled in 1906 to
Constantinople in the
Ottoman Empire where they found an Orthodox priest who would marry them, marrying in the
Greek Church of the Holy Trinity. They then spent their honeymoon in
Cairo, before Chakrabongse travelled alone to Siam via
Singapore to prepare the Royal Court for his foreign wife, leaving Desnytska in Singapore. == Life in Siam ==