Kudnarto was around 14 years old when she met colonist Thomas Adams, 20 years her senior, and they started cohabiting. Adams worked as a
shepherd on a property near Crystal Brook owned by settler Peter Fergusson. In 1847 Adams gave notice that he intended to marry Kudnarto, but first, they had to obtain permission from the inaugural
Protector of Aborigines in the colony,
Matthew Moorhouse. Moorhouse visited her a number of times to gauge her feelings on the matter, and to inform her of her obligations under British law should she marry him. He gave his approval after assessing that she indeed did wish to marry Adams, which had to then also be approved by the
Lieutenant Governor of South Australia,
Frederick Robe, which he gave. and
The Port Phillip Patriot and Morning Advertiser in the
colony of Victoria in June and July 1847 respectively. The report stated that she had been placed in the
Native School in
Adelaide for the purpose of instruction in domestic duties before marriage, and it praised her intelligence and disposition.
The Sydney Morning Herald headed their report "Marriage extraordinary", while the
South Australian Register opined: Reserves of land had been set aside for Aboriginal people to occupy and conduct agricultural activities on, but many of these were leased to colonists. In February 1848 Thomas Adams requested a section on
Skillogalee Creek, near
Auburn in the
Clare Valley. This was supported by Moorhouse, so long as Kudnarto occupied and use the land; This was in order to protect Kudnarto in case of desertion by her husband, who was reportedly drank to excess. Kudnarto was granted a licence to Section 346, covering . Adams would not be allowed to sell or lease the land, and if Kudnarto died, he would lose the right to live there, although "there might be a renewal in favour of her children in case of her death". Thomas Snr did subsequently lease out the land while finding work on other properties, but it is not known if his wife and children accompanied him, or where they lived during this time. In August 1850, both Kudnarto and her husband were called as witnesses in a murder trial. ==Children==