In 1862 she married
Sir Thomas Buxton, 3rd Baronet and resided with him at
Warlies,
Upshire near
Waltham Abbey. The couple had thirteen children of whom ten survived. She assisted her husband with his political career and worked to support social services and church missions including the
YMCA and
YWCA. In 1869 she began to suffer from
osteoarthritis. Although she found travel difficult she remained reasonably active and retained her cheerful disposition. She held mothers' meetings at Warlies and established a branch of the
Church of England Mothers' Union. She served as diocesan president of the Mothers' Union in London where she was also president of the Time and Talents Association of young factory girls. She accompanied her husband to
South Australia in 1895 upon his appointment as
governor. She continued her
philanthropic activity by sponsoring reading circles and supporting missionary work. She was the founding president of the Mother's Union of South Australia and actively supported the YWCA in
Adelaide. She and her husband held a convention at which a
constitution for a united
Australia was first discussed. In 1896 she laid a foundation stone for a new junior branch of the YMCA in Adelaide, the
Our Boys Institute. In 1898 Lady Victoria returned to England with her husband on leave. Her health deteriorated and she did not return to Australia. In 1902 the Buxtons built St Thomas's Church in Upshire. ==Death/Legacy==