Along with her sisters,
Lady Alice and Lady Eliza, Lady Violet is known for her activities within the London social scene. She and her sisters have received national press for their outlandish behaviour, being dubbed the "bad-Manners girls." She has worked as a model, having been featured in
Tatler and walking the runway for
Dolce & Gabbana. She worked for My Beautiful City, a creative agency in
Soho, before starting her own marketing and brand-strategy consultant company. She also has worked for
Robin Birley, in
public relations for
Gleneagles, and a geopolitical consultant firm called Etoile. In 2021, Manners was leading a creative marketing agency called Akana Collective. She is credited by her mother,
Emma Manners, with inspiring
Duchess, the podcast launched in 2021 which ran for four seasons. The idea for the podcast originated during her time studying for a business and finance diploma at
UCLA in Los Angeles. Inspired by observing American perceptions of the
British aristocracy, she proposed the concept to her mother, the
Duchess of Rutland, aiming to present a more authentic account of life in historic estates from the perspective of those who manage them in the 21st century. In preparation, she explored over fifty historic houses. In 2021, Manners proposed the idea of offering overnight stays at
Belvoir Castle as part of a curated heritage tour. The initiative was inspired by feedback from a listener of the
Duchess podcast, which she co-produced. Responding to interest in visiting the historic estates featured in the series, Manners developed the concept to provide guests with a structured experience of British country houses, including Belvoir Castle. In 2023, Manners announced her candidacy for the
National Trust's advisory council. Motivated by concerns over what she viewed as the politicisation of the organisation, she aimed to contribute to its strategic direction and governance. ==Personal life==