As an actress, Graff appeared as Frenchy in
Grease on Broadway and a national tour. She also performed in a national tour of
Laughter on the 23rd Floor, and an off-Broadway production of
In the Boom Boom Room, in addition to other stage productions during her acting career. In 2005, she published a holiday-themed romance novella in the collection
Scenes From a Holiday. In 2006, she published her second novel,
Looking for Mr. Goodfrog, which continues the story from
You Have to Kiss a Lot of Frogs. A review by
Publishers Weekly states, "While Graff doesn't break any new ground, she offers a fun tour of New York, and readers will welcome the return of her smart narrator."
The Shiksa Syndrome was published in 2008 and described as a novel about "a thirty something single Jewish woman who, wanting to find "a nice Jewish boy," attempts to pass for a shiksa (non-Jewish woman)" in a
Library Journal review of the audiobook. A review by
Publishers Weekly states, "Graff's prose crackles with winning wit, making her potentially annoying conceit go down like a chocolate-covered macaroon." In a review for
Booklist, Patty Engelmann writes, "Graff's latest is by turns funny and poignant as she explores religious identity and modern relationships and finds that sometimes Mr. Wrong may be more right than Mr. Right." Her work as a playwright is included in the anthologies
New Monologues for Women by Women and ''Best Men's Stage Monologues of 1999''. One-act plays All My Problems, Telephone Call for Francine Stein, Love in the Time of Recession, and Charlie & Flo (at PS NBC) have been produced at WorkShop Theater Company where she is a member. ==Selected works==