Kao was born and raised in
Hacienda Heights, California, where he later graduated from
Glen A. Wilson High School. He played Lysander in his high school's production of ''
A Midsummer Night's Dream''. However, during one of the in-class previews of the show, Kao was falsely arrested for attempted murder and assault with a deadly weapon. If convicted, the minimum sentencing would have been 40 years behind bars. Kao was later released in the absence and lack of probable cause, giving him enough time to make it before the closing night of the show. After being forced to contemplate his life inside jail, Kao realized he wanted to pursue acting as a profession. Kao received his B.A. in theater from the
University of California, Irvine (UCI), where he was a part of
Kaba Modern dance team. Within the dancing community on campus, he befriended the Kinjaz dance team cofounders Mike Song and Anthony Lee. == Career ==