Lillian Faderman

Faderman was raised by her mother, Mary, and her aunt, Ray. In 1914, her mother emigrated from a shtetl in Latvia to New York City, planning eventually to send for the rest of the family. Her aunt Ray came in 1923, but the rest of the family was killed during Hitler's extermination of European Jews, and Mary blamed herself for not being able to rescue them. Her guilt contributed to a serious mental illness that would profoundly affect her daughter. Mary and Ray, Faderman's mother and aunt, worked in the garment industry for very little money. Lillian was her mother's third pregnancy; her mother (unmarried) aborted the first two pregnancies at Lillian's biological father's request, but insisted on bearing and raising the third. Mary married when Lillian was a teenager and died in 1979, continuing to have a profound influence on her daughter's life. Using pseudonyms such as Gigi Frost, Faderman did nude modeling and made softcore nude film loops which paid for her education. She gave her experience in the softcore porn industry in her memoir book Naked in the Promised Land. ==Education==

Faderman received her BA from University of California, Berkeley and her PhD from University of California, Los Angeles. ==Personal life==

Her family moved with her to Los Angeles where, with her mother's encouragement, Lillian took acting classes. She began modeling as a teenager, discovered the gay bar scene, and eventually met her first girlfriend. Before she graduated from Hollywood High School, she married a gay man much older than herself—a marriage that lasted less than a year. Faderman came out as lesbian in the 1950s. She lives with her partner, Phyllis Irwin. She and Phyllis raised one son, Avrom, conceived through artificial insemination by an anonymous Jewish donor. ==Awards and honors==

• The New York Times (Notable Book of 1981) for Surpassing the Love of Men: Romantic Friendship and Love Between Women from the Renaissance to the Present • Stonewall Book Award (1982) for Surpassing the Love of Men: Romantic Friendship and Love Between Women from the Renaissance to the Present • Lambda Literary Award (Editor's Choice Award, 1992) for Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America • The New York Times (Notable Book of 1992) for Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America • Stonewall Book Award (Nonfiction, 1992) for Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America • Lambda Literary Award for Best Non-fiction Book (2000) for To Believe in Women: What Lesbians Have Done For America - A History • Lambda Literary Award for Best Lesbian/Gay Anthology (2003) for Naked in the Promised Land • Yale University James Brudner Prize for Exemplary Scholarship in Lesbian/Gay Studies (2001) • Paul Monette-Roger Horwitz Trust Award (1999) • Bill Whitehead Award for Lifetime Achievement (Publishing Triangle, 2004) for Naked in the Promised Land • Judy Grahn Award for Memoir (Publishing Triangle, 2004) for Naked in the Promised Land • Two Lambda Literary Awards for Best Nonfiction Book & LGBT Arts and Culture Award (2007) both awards for Gay L. A.: A History of Sexual Outlaws, Power Politics and Lipstick Lesbians • Lambda Literary Award (Pioneer Award, 2013) • The New York Times (Notable Book of 2015) for The Gay Revolution • The Washington Post (Notable Nonfiction Book of 2015) for The Gay Revolution • Anisfield-Wolf Book Award (Nonfiction, 2016) for The Gay Revolution • Golden Crown Literary Society 2017 Trailblazer Award ==Works==

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Filming on an adaption of the book Scotch Verdict by Flora Nicholson and Sophie Heldman took place in 2025, with the title The Education of Jane Cumming. The Education of Jane Cumming premiered at the Berlinale, Berlin's international film festival and won the first place prize at the Ukraine international queer film festival in 2026. The story was also the inspiration for Lillian Hellman's 1934 play ''The Children's Hour''. ==References==