Lord Weardale married Countess Alexandra Tolstoy (1856–1934), granddaughter of the German-born
Russian Count Georg von Cancrin and widow of
Count Tolstoy, a relative of the writer
Leo Tolstoy, in 1877. In 1906, he built Weardale Manor, a
country house on
Toys Hill, Brasted Chart, near
Sevenoaks in
Kent. A substantial house – 145 rooms – it was only occupied during the summer months. He died in Sevenoaks in March 1923, aged 75, and was buried at
Chevening. As he had no children the barony became extinct on his death. After his death, Lady Weardale rarely visited Weardale Manor. On her death in 1934, she left it to her nephew,
Lord Stanhope. Lacking the funds to maintain it, he allowed it to fall into disrepair and it was demolished in 1939, as
were many country houses at that time. == Arms ==