The eccentricities of Paul I led to a plot to overthrow him and place Alexander on the Russian throne. Elizabeth was well aware of this scheme and on the night of Paul's assassination, she was with her husband giving him support. Once Alexander became emperor, Elizabeth Alexeievna encouraged him to leave behind the trauma of Paul I's murder and dedicate himself to serve Russia. As
Empress Consort, she took part in court life and the duties of representation, but the first female rank in the empire was reserved for her mother-in-law Empress
Maria Feodorovna. During official events, Maria walked next to the Emperor while Elizabeth was forced to walk alone behind them. Alexander treated his wife indifferently, he was polite toward her in public ceremonies and made an effort to have his meals in her company. Elizabeth was said to be too soft and placid to keep a hold on a restless and soul tortured man such as her husband. In 1803, Alexander began a love affair that would continue for more than fifteen years with the Polish Princess
Maria Naryshkina, wife of Prince Dmitri
Naryshkin. Maria Naryshkina flaunted her liaison at court in a tasteless, blatant fashion. :
National Museum in
Warsaw : The
Chelyabinsk State Museum of Fine Arts Elizabeth, for her part, found solace in her relationship with Prince
Adam Jerzy Czartoryski, who had returned to Russia at Alexander's ascension to the throne. This liaison ended when she started a love affair with a handsome staff captain,
Alexis Okhotnikov. All the correspondence between Elizabeth and Alexis Okhotnikov, and some of her diaries were destroyed by Emperor
Nicholas I after her death. The affair with Okhotnikov had a tragic end. The staff captain, who suffered from
tuberculosis, retired due to his worsened health and died in 1807. It was apparently rumored later that Alexander or his brother Grand Duke
Constantine had ordered him killed; in the early twentieth century Grand Duke
Nicholas Mikhailovich turned those rumors into an elaborate legend for his biography of Elizabeth Alexeievna, although the chapter on Okhotnikov was not published at the time due to
Nicholas II's personal intervention, and his other studies of that period. On 16 November 1806, Elizabeth gave birth to a second daughter. There were rumors that the newborn, Grand Duchess
Elizabeth Alexandrovna was not a child of Alexander but of Okhotnikov. After his death, Elizabeth Alexeievna felt more abandoned than ever and poured out all her affection on her daughter Elizabeth, "Lisinka". Fifteen months later, the little girl died suddenly of an infection blamed on teething. "Now," wrote Elizabeth to her mother, "I am not longer good for anything in this world, my soul has no more strength to recover from this last blow." In 1807, Rev. London King Pitt, Chaplain to the British community in St. Petersburg, was appointed as Elizabeth's English Language Tutor, and she came to know his wife, Frances. After Rev. Pitt died of typhus in 1813, Frances returned to England with their son, but Elizabeth persuaded Frances to return to Russia to be a companion to her. A portrait of Elisabeth as a widow, executed for Frances in 1826 by George Dawe, Alexander's court painter, is now in the Royal Collection in London. The death of their daughter temporarily brought Alexander and Elizabeth closer. Although Elizabeth Alexeievna was not yet thirty years old, neither she nor Alexander had further hopes of a family and they would have no more children. During the
Napoleonic Wars, Elizabeth Alexeievna was a reliable supporter of her husband's policies as she had been in other personal and political crises. After the fall of
Napoleon, she joined her husband and many of the crowned heads of Europe in the
Congress of Vienna (1814), where she was reunited with her old paramour, Adam Czartoryski. He was still in love with her and forgave her past infidelity with Okhotnikov. Their reunion was short-lived. ==Last years and death==