Many factors influence men's sexual behavior. These include evolved tendencies, such as a greater interest in casual sex, as well as individual and social factors related to upbringing, personality, and relationship status.
Interest in casual sex Compared to women, men have a greater interest in
casual sex. On average, men express a greater desire for a variety of sex partners, let less time elapse before seeking sex, lower their standards dramatically when pursuing
short-term mating, have more
sexual fantasies and more fantasies involving a variety of sex partners, report having a higher sex drive, find cues to sexual exploitability to be attractive for short-term mating, experience more sexual regret over missed sexual opportunities, have a larger number of
extramarital affairs and are more likely to seek
hookups and
friends with benefits, and visit
prostitutes more often. This has been often attributed to safety and social concerns when it comes to casual sex for women, and differences disappear when risk is accounted for and pleasure is guaranteed.
Upbringing and personality One study has several factors that influence the age of first
sexual intercourse among youth aged 13–18. Those from families with both parents present, from high socioeconomic backgrounds, who performed better at school, were more religious, who had higher parental expectations, and felt like their parents care, showed much lower levels of sexual activity across all age groups in the study. In contrast, those with higher levels of body pride showed higher levels of sexual activity.
Sociosexuality Males who are in a
committed relationship have a restricted
sociosexual orientation, and will have different sexual behavior compared to males who have an unrestricted sociosexual orientation. Males with a restricted sociosexual orientation will be less willing to have sex outside of their committed relationship and behave according to their desire for commitment and emotional closeness with their partner. Sociosexually restricted males are less likely to approach females who have lower
waist-to-hip ratios (0.68–0.72), generally rated as more physically attractive.
Expected parental investment Elizabeth Cashdan proposed that mate strategies among both genders differ depending on how much
parental investment is expected of the male, and provided research support for her hypotheses. When men expect to provide a high level of parental investment, they will attempt to attract women by emphasising their ability to invest. In addition, men who expect to invest will be more likely to highlight their chastity and fidelity than men who expect not to invest. Men with the expectation of low parental investment will flaunt their sexuality to women. Cashdan argues the fact the research supports the idea that men expecting to invest emphasise their chastity and fidelity, which is a high-cost strategy (because it lowers reproductive opportunities), suggests that that type of behaviour must be beneficial, or the behaviour would not have been
selected. In polygamous societies, men feel greater sexual jealousy when there is low paternity certainty. This is because they do not want to risk wasting time, energy and resources on a child that is not theirs. Socio-economic differences between cultures also affect paternity certainty. In a "natural fertility" country such as Namibia, 96% of males show sexual jealousy. Additionally, there is a greater likelihood of paternity loss and paternity uncertainty when there is a lack of contraceptives. It may be that rape is a non-adaptive by-product of other evolved mechanisms, such as desire for sexual variety and for sex without investment, sensitivity to sexual opportunities, and a general capacity for physical aggression. Masculine gender roles and a sense of general and sexual entitlement, which are usually endorsed in
patriarchal and
heteronormative societies, predict rape-related attitudes and behaviors in men. However, it could be that
evolutionary selection in the
ancestral environment in some cases favored males who raped, resulting in rape itself being an
adaptation. Scholars from several fields have criticized this idea.
David Buss states that clear-cut evidence either way is lacking. == Homosexuality ==