Hubbard and Grubb married on April 13, 1933, after only a short courtship. They settled in
Laytonsville, Maryland. She had a miscarriage not long afterwards, and became pregnant again in October 1933. On May 7, 1934, Grubb gave birth two months prematurely to
L. Ronald Hubbard Jr. (died September 16, 1991, in
Carson City, Nevada), while on a vacation with her husband at
Encinitas, California. Ron Jr. legally changed his name to Ronald Edward DeWolf in 1972, and the new name is thusly reflected in the
California Birth Index, 1905–1995. On January 15, 1936, the couple had a daughter, Katherine May (or "Kay"), in
New York City. In the spring of 1936 the Hubbards moved to
Bremerton, Washington, to be near Hubbard's own family, the Waterburys. They settled in the community of
South Colby, Washington, where Hubbard established a "writing studio" from where he produced many of his pulp short stories and novels. The marriage came under strain when Hubbard began spending increasingly long periods in New York in order to be nearer his publishers and fellow pulp writers. Grubb suspected that he was having affairs with other women in New York and confided her suspicions to family friends. According to
Robert MacDonald Ford, a friend who later became a state representative, matters came to a head when she found hard evidence of her husband's philandering: The couple appear to have patched up their relationship afterwards, as they went on an extended sailing trip to
Alaska in July 1938. Three years later Hubbard entered the
US Navy for war service. Other than a period in 1943 when Hubbard was stationed in
Astoria, Oregon, during the fitting out of the ill-fated
USS PC-815, she appears to have seen relatively little of her husband. It was clear by the end of the war that the marriage was doomed. She had briefly considered moving to California to be with her husband during his posting there, but decided not to, as she did not want to uproot her children. By this time she had moved in with Hubbard's parents in Bremerton. For his part, Hubbard had moved in with the rocket scientist and
occultist
John Whiteside Parsons in
Pasadena, California, and had begun an intense affair with Parsons' girlfriend
Sara Northrup Hollister. By her own account, Grubb did not see Hubbard at all between 1945 and June 1947. == Divorce ==