, 1909 On 10 May 1894, Asquith married
H. H. Asquith and became a "spur to his ambition". She brought him into the glittering social world, which he had in no way experienced with his first wife, who Asquith had known and always spoke of warmly. Asquith also became an unenthusiastic stepmother to five children, who were bemused by Asquith, who was so different from their quiet mother.
Violet Asquith wrote: "She flashed into our lives like some dazzling
bird of paradise, filling us with amazement, amusement, excitement, sometimes with a vague uneasiness as to what she might do next." In 1908, when Asquith became prime minister, Violet was the only child of his first wife still at home, and the two shared a deep interest in politics. In contrast, relations between stepmother and stepdaughter were frequently strained, prompting H. H. Asquith to write lamentingly of how the two were "on terms of chronic misunderstanding". Asquith bore five children of her own, two of them surviving infancy.
Elizabeth Asquith, born in 1897, later married Prince
Antoine Bibesco of
Romania in 1919 and became a writer of some note.
Anthony Asquith, born in 1902, became a leading English film director. Until they moved to the prime minister's residence at
10 Downing Street in 1908, the Asquith home was a huge house in
Cavendish Square in London, with a staff of 14 servants. The residence of most importance in the life of the Asquiths was
The Wharf in
Sutton Courtenay, Oxfordshire, built in 1912. It became their weekend home away from home, and it was there that literary, artistic and political luminaries would gather. ==Views on suffrage and politics==