Maria Margaret La Primaudaye was born into a Huguenot family on 10 April 1838, the third child of the Revd Charles John La Primaudaye, a descendant of
Pierre de La Primaudaye. The Pollens had ten children, among them the Jesuit historian and archivist,
John Hungerford Pollen, and the journalist, inventor, and businessman,
Arthur Hungerford Pollen. The church architect,
Francis Pollen, was a great-grandson. During the 1870s and 1880s, the Pollens rented Newbuildings Place in
Shipley,
Sussex from
Wilfrid Scawen Blunt, a childhood friend of the La Primaudaye family. Relations between the two families, which had been unusually intimate, broke down in 1888 when
Lady Anne Blunt accused
Arthur Pollen of over-familiarity towards her daughter,
Judith. ==Collecting==