Meseke was christened "Mary Ellen Spurrier" in 1917, near
Lima, Ohio. While still an infant, her mother surrendered custody to her maternal grandparents, Charlie and Clara Meseke. Following her adoption, she was renamed Marilyn, given her grandmother's surname of Meseke and reared in the family home on South Prospect Street in
Marion, Ohio. While still a child, she exhibited a talent for dance and received formal dance instruction throughout her childhood; she later became a
tap dance instructor, using the family's living room as her studio. ==Pageantry==