Teacher After completing Normal School, she taught school until she was 19, when, in 1854, she married Ralph C. Whiting, a native of
Hartford, Connecticut, who came to
Washtenaw County, Michigan with his parents at age 12, the family home being established in
Pittsfield. Mr. Whiting was three years his wife's senior. His father, Charles Whiting, was a wholesale leather and shoe dealer at Hartford, and came to Michigan for his health. He purchased a farm of east of
Ann Arbor, Michigan, which Mrs. Whiting eventually owned. At the time of their marriage, Mr. and Mrs. Whiting received congratulations from Dr.
Henry Philip Tappan, chancellor of the Michigan University, who gave a large party in her honor, the families being warm friends, visiting each other frequently until the removal of Dr. Tappan and his son-in-law, Dr.
Franz Friedrich Ernst Brünnow, the astronomer, to Europe. Subsequent to her marriage, Whiting engaged in teaching a private school, having charge of English branches and vocal and instrumental music. She also kept up her literary work, writing for local papers.
Lawyer In 1885, she began to study law, mainly for the purpose of handling her large estate, of which she took entire control. She entered the
University of Michigan Law School, giving it fifteen hours daily to study, and graduated in 1887, at the age of 52. She was admitted to the
Michigan Bar and began to practice in
Ann Arbor, Michigan. She pled many cases in the courts in the state, including the
Michigan Supreme Court. She also handled various real estate matters. She served as
executrix of several estates involving large interests, and never had a
will broken. For several years, she served as
notary public and was widely recognized as one of the most capable lawyers at the bar of this state. She became one of the most successful women insurance agents in the U.S. In 1885, Whiting was elected clerk of the Michigan Club Court.
Philanthropist Whiting established the Mary Collins Whiting Free Dispensary in
Busan, Korea, which she termed “A work of love.” Dispensary work was not only carried on there, but the institution was also a Presbyterian mission. Up to September 1899, 8,500 cases were treated and had been collected. The institution had become almost self-supporting, but remained a free dispensary for all unable to pay. Among the Koreans, she was styled “The Princess Whitinski," which name came about in the following manner: Whiting had a picture of herself taken in a full length
sealskin coat and
chinchilla fur cap and sent to the conservatory by request. The Koreans, from their familiarity with Russian names and titles, and believing that all Caucasian women were princesses with names ending in ski, at once called her the Princess Whitinski, a title of which also indicated the veneration which the native population felt for the founder of the dispensary. ==Personal life==