Freeman was born in
Randolph, Massachusetts on October 31, 1852, to Eleanor Lothrop and Warren Edward Wilkins, who originally baptized her "Mary Ella". Her father was a descendant of
Bray Wilkins. Freeman's parents were orthodox
Congregationalists, and her upbringing was very strict. Religious constraints play a key role in some of her works. In 1867, the family moved to
Brattleboro, Vermont, where Freeman graduated from the local high school before attending
Mount Holyoke College (then, Mount Holyoke Female Seminary) in
South Hadley, Massachusetts, for one year, from 1870 to 1871. She later finished her education at Glenwood Seminary in West Brattleboro. When the family's dry goods business in Vermont failed in 1873, the family returned to Randolph, Massachusetts. Freeman's mother died three years later, and she changed her middle name to "Eleanor" in her memory. During a visit to
Metuchen, New Jersey in 1892, she met Dr. Charles Manning Freeman, a non-practicing medical doctor seven years younger than she. After years of courtship and delays, the two were married on January 1, 1902. Immediately after, she firmly established her name as "Mary E. Wilkins Freeman", which she asked ''
Harper's'' to use on all of her work. The couple built a home in Metuchen, where Freeman became a local celebrity for her writing, despite having occasionally published satirical fictional representations of her neighbors. Her husband suffered from
alcoholism and an addiction to sleeping powders. He also had a reputation for driving fast horses and womanizing. He was committed to the
New Jersey State Hospital for the Insane in
Trenton, and the two legally separated a year later. After his death in 1923, he left the majority of his wealth to his chauffeur and only one dollar to his former wife. In April 1926, Freeman became the first recipient of the
William Dean Howells Medal for Distinction in Fiction from the
American Academy of Arts and Letters. Freeman suffered a heart attack and died in Metuchen on March 15, 1930, aged 77. She was laid to rest in
Hillside Cemetery in
Scotch Plains, New Jersey. == Adolescence ==