Gergen grew up on the plains of southwestern
Minnesota, and later moved with her family to
St. Louis Park, a suburb of
Minneapolis. She obtained her B.S. in English and Education with a minor in speech and theatre at the
University of Minnesota, where she was elected
Phi Beta Kappa. She was a member of
Delta Gamma sorority. Gergen later obtained her M.S. in
Educational Psychology with a specialization in counseling at the University of Minnesota. Mary Gergen earned a Ph.D. at Temple University in social psychology. Moving to
Boston with her first husband, Michael Gebhart, and their two children, Lisa and Michael, she worked at
Harvard University as a research assistant in the Social Relations Department, and later at the
Harvard Business School in marketing. In 1969 she married
Kenneth J. Gergen and moved to Rose Valley,
Pennsylvania. From the 1970s, she was a member of the
American Psychological Association, and a founding member and fellow of Div. 35, The Society for the Psychology of Women. In 1980, Mary Gergen earned a Ph.D. in psychology at
Temple University, with a specialization in
social psychology. She also worked for four years as a psychological consultant for
AT&T on their longitudinal study of managers' lives. Gergen began her teaching career at
Penn State, Brandywine in 1984 as an assistant professor in psychology and
women's studies. In 1988-89, Gergen was a fellow at the
Netherlands Institute for Advanced Study. She won the
George W. Atherton teaching award, a university wide honor, in 1966, and became a full professor. Gergen was given the title of
Emerita upon retiring from the college in 2006. In the early 1990s, she was one of the seven founders of The Taos Institute, a non-profit organization dedicated to the development of
social constructionist ideas within diverse practice areas, including therapy, organizational consulting, and education. She was a co-creator of the positive aging newsletter healthandage.com, an electronically distributed news source designed to reconstruct the negative stereotype of aging, and to provide an alternative that is more promising in potential. She also edited the
Tempo Book series. Mary Gergen traveled internationally to give lectures and workshops and served on examination committees and as an external examiner for Ph.D. theses from many countries, in addition to supervising several doctoral dissertations and teaching in a theoretical psychology program at
Massey University, NZ. == Work ==