Maude Rose Rubens was born on 20 November 1897 in
Pretoria,
South African Republic, the only child of Rosa Caroline (formerly Staal, née Haible) and German-born Norbert Albert Rubens, a clerk and later a merchant. She later adopted the name Dolores, shortened to "Lores" (pronounced Lor-ee) in preference to her given names. The family moved first to England in 1901, then to Australia in 1903. After education first in
Melbourne, at the Star of the Sea Ladies’ College and the Cromarty Girls’ School, in
Elsternwick, she then attended Victoria-Pensionat in
Bad Homburg, Germany in 1911 to advance her music studies at a finishing school, becoming an accomplished pianist but suffering from stage fright. At this school she became fluent in French and German, before returning to Australia in 1913. In 1917, age 19, she met and married Harry Barrington Bonney, a leather goods manufacturer, whilst she was a member of the Red Cross working on the war effort during the World War I war effort. The couple moved to
Brisbane, Queensland, Australia and settled in
Bowen Hills. ==Learning to fly==