Marriages Bodenheim had three wives. His first wife was Minna Schein (married 1918-divorced 1938), with whom he had one son, Solbert, born 1920. His second wife was Grace Finan (married 1939-her death 1950). After becoming a widower, he married Ruth Fagin (married 1952–until their murder in 1954). Before he married his second wife, Grace, he had become a panhandler. They spent part of their marriage in the
Catskills. After she died of cancer in 1950, he was arrested and hospitalized several times for vagrancy and drunkenness . Ruth Fagin, 28 years his junior, shared his derelict lifestyle. They were homeless and slept on park benches. He sometimes
panhandled while carrying a sign that read, "I Am Blind," although he had adequate vision. He sometimes composed short poems for money or drinks. Ruth engaged in
prostitution, which reportedly provoked beatings by her husband.
Death Bodenheim and Ruth were murdered February 6, 1954, at a
flophouse at 97
Third Avenue in Manhattan, by a 25-year-old dishwasher, Harold "Charlie" Weinberg. They had befriended him on the streets of the Village and he offered to let them spend the night in his room a few blocks from the
Bowery. Weinberg and Ruth had sex near the cot where the 62-year-old drunken Bodenheim appeared to be sleeping. Bodenheim arose, challenged Weinberg, and they began fighting. Weinberg shot Bodenheim twice in the chest. He beat Ruth and stabbed her four times in the back. Weinberg confessed to the double homicide, but said in his defense, "I ought to get a medal. I killed two
Communists." Weinberg was judged insane (
sociopathic) and sent to a mental institution. Hecht offered to pay for Bodenheim's funeral. Bodenheim's ex-wife, Minna Schein, made arrangements to have him buried in her family plot in
Cedar Park Cemetery,
Emerson, New Jersey. ==Legacy==