Mercy Manci was born in the small village of Hlwahlwazi,
Eastern Cape,
South Africa in 1955. She was the firstborn of a nine children. At birth she was covered with a white substance, which her mother called a "net", which indicated that she was a special child. She was raised by her grandmother, because her mother was a
domestic worker in
Durban. Her grandmother was a traditional healer and as a child Mercy would help her prepare
muti. When she was teenager, she was "
grabbed" by another family to marry one of their sons, in order to avoid lengthy
lobola negotiations. As she was no longer a virgin, she could not return to her mother, and the marriage became official when the family paid four cows. She has one daughter from this marriage. While she lived in the
Ciskei, and her husband went to work in the mines, she studied nursing through correspondence at
Damelin. However, when her husband came home, he burned her books and destroyed the typewriter she bought. Eventually, after he discovered that she was taking
contraceptives behind his back, something that was
taboo at that time, their marriage ended and he sent her back to her family. Instead of returning to her family's home, she went to
Johannesburg and found a job as a Doctor's assistant. While she was living in Johannesburg, she fell sick and began to dream strangely. Eventually a traditional healer would confirm that she need to answer a calling to become a sangoma. ==Activism==