Moyer has a son named Billy, born in 2000, and a daughter, Lilac, born in 2002, from his first marriage to journalist Lorien Haynes. In August 2009, Moyer became engaged to actress
Anna Paquin, who played his character's love interest,
Sookie Stackhouse, in the HBO series
True Blood. They had been dating since filming the series pilot in 2007. His divorce was final in 2008. They married on 21 August 2010 at a private residence in
Malibu, California. Moyer and Paquin have a son, Charlie, and a daughter, Poppy, who are
fraternal twins. The family resides in
Venice, Los Angeles. Moyer has dealt with alcoholism in the past. In 2015, he said that he had been sober for 14 years and that the addiction stemmed from his roots in British theatre, emulating the public images of personal heroes like
Peter O'Toole. At a dinner at the CLARE Foundation, a southern California non-profit facility, he stated, "There's this rush that happens from doing our job, this whirring buzz, and you want to continue that buzz." He works with CLARE Foundation to help others with rehabilitation and sobriety. ==Filmography==