cemetery at Athens After 1100 BC, Greeks began to bury their dead in individual graves rather than group tombs.
Athens, however, was a major exception; the Athenians normally
cremated their dead and placed their ashes in an urn. During the early
Archaic period, Greek cemeteries became larger, but grave goods decreased. This greater simplicity in burial coincided with the rise of
democracy and the egalitarian military of the
hoplite phalanx, and became pronounced during the early
Classical period (5th century BC). Many funerary
steles show the deceased, usually sitting or sometimes standing, clasping the hand of a standing survivor, often the spouse. When a third onlooker is present, the figure may be identified as an adult child. Women played a major role in funeral rites. They were in charge of preparing the body, which was washed,
anointed and adorned with a wreath. The mouth was sometimes sealed with a token or talisman, referred to as "
Charon's obol" if a coin was used, and explained as payment for the
ferryman of the dead to convey the soul from the world of the living to the
world of the dead. Initiates into
mystery religions might be furnished with a gold tablet, sometimes placed on the lips or otherwise positioned with the body, that offered instructions for navigating the afterlife and addressing the rulers of the underworld,
Hades and
Persephone; the German term
Totenpass, "passport for the dead," is sometimes used in modern scholarship for these. A
priest or priestess was not allowed to enter the house of the deceased or to take part in the funerary rites, as death was seen as a cause of
spiritual impurity or pollution. This is in line with the Greek idea that even the
gods could be polluted by death, and hence anything related to the sacred had to be kept away from death and dead bodies. Hence, many inscriptions in Greek temples banned those who had recent contact with dead bodies. After the body was prepared, it was laid out for viewing on the second day. Kinswomen, wrapped in dark robes, stood round the bier, the chief mourner, either mother or wife, was at the head, and others behind. This part of the funeral rites was called the
prothesis. Women led the mourning by chanting
dirges, tearing at their hair and clothing, and striking their torso, particularly their breasts. Before dawn on the third day, the funeral procession
(ekphora) formed to carry the body to its resting place. Depending on the wealth of the family of the deceased, they would often hire people to mourn the dead during these processions. At the time of the funeral, offerings were made to the deceased by only a relative and lover. The
choai, or
libation, and the
haimacouria, or blood propitiation were two types of offerings. The
choai dates back to Minoan times. Since there is a complete absence of any references of animal sacrifices on Attic
lêkythoi, this provides the grounds for inferring that the practice as conducted on behalf of ordinary dead was at least very rare. The mourner first dedicated a lock of hair, along with choai, which were libations of honey, milk, water, wine, perfumes, and oils mixed in varying amounts.
Choai were usually poured at the grave, either on to the steps supporting the
stêlê, or possibly over the shaft. A prayer then followed these libations. Then came the
enagismata, which were offerings to the dead that included milk, honey, water, wine, celery, pelanon (a mixture of meal, honey, and oil), and kollyba (the first fruits of the crops and dried fresh fruits). Once the burial was complete, the house and household objects were thoroughly cleansed with seawater and hyssop, and the women most closely related to the dead took part in the ritual washing in clean water. Afterwards, there was a funeral feast called the
perideipnon. The dead man was the host, and this feast was a sign of gratitude towards those who took part in burying him. The family would then be tasked with visiting the grave at set intervals up to a year to continue libations and rituals. Mainly the women in the family were expected to visit the grave. After the first year, annual visits would be expected. During this year, families would have a laurel or other plant-based indicator that their family was unclean. Only after the first year would the family be fully re-accepted into society and considered free of pollution.
Scenes from funerary steles File:Stele mother BM 2232.jpg|Mother handing infant into a nurse's care (425–400 BC) File:Grave stele 02 pushkin.jpg|With horse (370s BC) File:Stele Lysistrate Met 06.287.jpg|
Farewell handshake (350–325 BC) File:Funerary stele Nicomedia Louvre Ma4501.jpg|Presentation of wreaths (
Bithynian, 150–100 BC) File:Grave stele 03 pushkin.jpg|Military theme (late 4th century BC) File:Stele Plangon Glyptothek Munich 199.jpg|
Child holding doll and bird, with goose (310 BC) File:Tombstone Xanthippos BM Sc628.jpg|Athenian shoemaker (430–420 BC) File:NAMA 752.jpg|
Funerary Stela of Demokleides (circa 394 BC) ==Commemoration and afterlife==