Jennifer Farber Dulos (September 27, 1968 May 24, 2019) was born in New York City to Gloria Ortenberg and Hilliard Farber, a banker and philanthropist respectively. She has an older sister, Melissa Irene Farber. Jennifer's maternal uncle and aunt-by-marriage,
Elizabeth Claiborne and Arthur Ortenberg, founded the fashion company
Liz Claiborne Inc. Jennifer graduated from
Brown University in 1990 and later earned a
master's degree in writing from
New York University Tisch School of the Arts. A stay-at-home mother, Jennifer made her living as a writer for
Patch.com and also ran her own
blog. Fotis Dulos (August 6, 1967 January 30, 2020) was born in Turkey and grew up in
Athens, Greece, moving to the U.S. in 1986. He graduated from Brown as well in 1989, and later earned an
MBA in finance from
Columbia Business School. Fotis married Hilary Vanessa Aldama, also a Brown graduate, in Athens in June 2000. The marriage lasted four years. That year Dulos founded Fore Group Inc., a
real estate development company based in
Connecticut, specializing in luxury homes. Dulos started emailing Farber, whom he had also met at Brown, while still with his first wife. They married in
Manhattan just over a month after Dulos' divorce, and subsequently moved to
Farmington, Connecticut. They had five children together, including two sets of twins, all named after
Greek Orthodox saints three sons: Petros, Theodore, and Constantine; and two daughters: Christiane and Cleopatra Noelle. In a 2012 blog post, Jennifer alluded to trouble in her marriage: "I wish I were a strong person and that confrontation did not both scare and appall me." After the gradual breakdown of the marriage, in which Jennifer claimed Fotis was living an increasingly independent life, she filed for divorce in 2017, at Superior Court in
Stamford. That same month she rented a house in
New Canaan, about southwest of Farmington, and moved there with the children. In her divorce filings, Jennifer wrote: "I know that filing for divorce, and filing this motion will enrage him. I know he will retaliate by trying to harm me in some way." She also stated she believed he was having an
affair with his colleague, Michelle Troconis, a native of Venezuela. Jennifer also alleged that Fotis had threatened to kidnap their children if she did not agree to his terms in the divorce settlement, and that he had bought a gun that year; Fotis denied making threats and claimed he bought the gun legally for home security. Both parents filed numerous motions claiming that the other was disparaging them. Jennifer had requested an emergency order of custody while the couple were given temporary joint custody of their children until the end of the divorce proceedings. When Jennifer again requested an emergency order of custody in early 2018, the judge found that Fotis had violated several court orders. In March of that year Jennifer was awarded sole physical custody, while both parents were to share joint legal custody. Fotis was granted supervised visitation and monitored phone calls. In February 2018, after Jennifer's father's death, Gloria Farber, Jennifer's mother, sued Fotis for unpaid loans. She claimed he owed them $1.7 million loaned to him by his father-in-law Hilliard Farber. == Disappearance ==