The Reproduction of Mothering: Psychoanalysis and the Sociology of Gender (1978) Chodorow's
The Reproduction of Mothering delves into four primary concepts: the unique personality traits of women, the pattern of male dominance and its potential for change, the reasons behind most women's identification as
heterosexual, and the reasons behind women's desire to mother children. Chodorow observed mothering as a dual structure, shaped by childhood experience and the social structure of kinship. She posits that becoming a mother is not solely biological or instinctual. She argues that "mothering" is socially constructed and part of female personality because women are mothered by women. In her book, Chodorow argues that gender differences arise from formations of the
Oedipal complex. While both male and female children experience closeness with their mothers, females seek gratification from this connection in a way that males do not. This separation can lead to ambivalence toward the father. In this work, Chodorow writes, "The mother is the early caregiver and primary source of identification for all children ... A daughter continues to identify with the mother" Women, having not suppressed this need, tolerate emotional unresponsiveness in exchange for some love and care. Men, unable to silence this desire through
repression, protect themselves from women while maintaining heterosexual relationships. She combines theoretical approaches, focusing on psychoanalysis and feminist theory, while acknowledging their shortcomings regarding gender psychology. She argues that gender identity develops through a combination of personal and cultural meanings.
The Psychoanalytic Ear and the Sociological Eye: Toward an American Independent Tradition (2019) In
The Psychoanalytic Ear and the Sociological Eye, Chodorow explores the relationship between social relationships and
individuality, arguing that sociology and psychoanalysis have suffered from not exploring their interconnectedness. She focuses on
Erik Erikson and
Hans Loewald, reflecting on her own cultural and psychoanalytic journeys. == Books ==