St. Laurent was born in Brooklyn, New York, on March 16, 1964. Early in her life, St. Laurent identified as a trans woman, but later identified as intersex and said she had been that since birth. "I had wonderful parents that supported me. My sexuality was not an issue with my parents. They were accustomed to that since I was a child. People thought I looked like a little girl, and my mother said: 'This is a boy! In 2000 she delivered a eulogy after the
murder of Amanda Milan, at Metropolitan Community Church. In 2008, St. Laurent was diagnosed with cancer. She moved in with her sister while receiving treatment and started a one-person show at Spirits gay bar in
Syracuse, New York, which she described as a quiet place for respite. St. Laurent gave a final interview by phone in March 2009 and died after a long battle with cancer on May 17, 2009, in Syracuse, New York, aged 45. St. Laurent is buried in a cemetery in
Queens, New York. == Acknowledgements ==