She was born Pamela Isabel Jameson Torrie on 11 August 1916 at 19 Atholl Crescent,
Edinburgh, the only child of Thomas George Jameson Torrie (1880–1916), a
Life Guards lieutenant-colonel, and his wife, Esmé Muriel Torrie, née Crabbe (1895–1984). Her parents married in September 1915, and her father was
killed in action on the Western Front in November 1916. In 1920, her mother married Basil Eddis, a merchant in India, and Pamela spent some time there, until the marriage broke down and they returned to the UK, after which her mother married Ralph Hope Vere. She was educated at
Westonbirt School, near Tetbury, and at the
Ozanne finishing school in Paris. She was keen on horses and riding from an early age, and after
finishing school, enrolled on a riding course at the
Cavalry School of Equitation in
Saumur, France. Her mother sent her money to purchase a fur coat, but she spent it on a horse instead. ==Career==