Paola Negri was born in
Castellanza to Lazzaro and Elisabetta Doria Negri. Her father was a schoolmaster. She had three siblings: her older sister Porzia became a nun, entering the Milanese convent of the "Dimesse del Crocifisso," of which she became prioress; her brother Camillo was ordained a priest; her younger sister Angela would later join the Angelic nuns. Virginia did not receive any particular education beyond learning to read and write. This wasn't unusual for that time period. In 1520, for work reasons, her father relocated with the family to Milan. They went to live near the Augustinian
nunnery of Santa Marta, where the
oratory of Eternal Wisdom was located This was a place of devotional practices frequented by leading figures of Milanese civic life. The Negri family also did not fail to attend the oratory. The convent and oratory were under French protection, but they finally lost control of the
Duchy of Milan to the Empire in 1524. The following year the congregation of Eternal Wisdom was dissolved, and Virginia fell into a period of depression, from which she tried to lift herself by providing assistance to the sick and needy. In 1528, she met the Dominican Battista da Crema (1460–1534). He was the author of the 1525 work Via de aperta verità. This text instructed devotees to follow a moral discipline and emphasize Christian faith over outward rituals and worldly interests. Two years later, through Friar Baptist, Virginia got to know
Antonio Maria Zaccaria and the Countess of Guastalla
Ludovica Torelli: the former would be the founder of the
Clerics Regular of St. Paul and would become Virginia's confessor and collaborator, while the latter would finance the construction of colleges intended to house the Barnabites, and the congregation of the
Angelic Sisters of Saint Paul. Virginia went to live with her sister Angela in the countess's house near the
Basilica of Sant'Ambrogio, where a small community of a dozen young devotees was gathering. ==The Angelicals==