Patricia Altschul

Patricia Altschul was born Patricia Madelyn Dey in Jacksonville, Florida in 1941 and grew up in Richmond, Virginia. Her parents were Frances Pearl Sudler Dey and Walter Pettus Dey, a medical doctor who graduated from the University of Alabama and received a medical degree from Tulane University in 1909.{{citation Altschul wrote and published the book The Art of Southern Charm in 2017. In 2020, Altschul launched The Patricia Altschul Luxury Collection on the Home Shopping Network. ==Marriages and social life==

In 1962, Patricia married L. Hayes Smith. The couple lived in Falls Church and McLean, Virginia. Their son, film maker and television producer Whitney Sudler-Smith, was born in 1968 in Washington, D.C. They were divorced in 1979. Patricia married the doctor and entrepreneur Edward Stitt Fleming in 1989. Altschul's prominence (and donations) helped her to be named to the Board of the New York Historical Society and the Rockefeller family Hudson Hills Trust. She was described by novelist Jay McInerney in New York Magazine as being one of New York's “Big Girls” – “the wives (and widows and heiresses) who are the keepers of the benefit circuit.” The Altschuls were frequently seen with other society types such as Melania and Donald Trump and Patricia's friends Georgette Mosbacher, Deeda Blair, and Carolyn Roehm, former wife of Henry Kravis and a designer in Manhattan. In 1997, Arthur and Patricia Altschul bought the 15-room Long Island estate "Southerly" overlooking Oyster Bay from Ambassador Hushang & Maryam Ansary. They hired Mario Buatta to redecorate. "The view is sensational and magical: you can see the water from every room in the house," Mrs. Altschul later told The New York Times. After Arthur's death, Patricia decided to put "Southerly" up for sale and move back to the South. Reporter M.J. Smith commented in The New York Times about the house that, "While the allusions to F. Scott Fitzgerald and Jazz Age parties may be trite, it is hard not to think of them when it comes to Southerly, a 10,000-square-foot Long Island estate that is now on the market for $15.8 million." ==Renovation of Mikell House==

In 2008, Altschul decided to leave New York for Charleston. She purchased the historic Isaac Jenkins Mikell House, an imposing 1854 Greek Revival residence noted for its pedimented portico with six large columns having capitals ornamented with rams’ heads. The house was formerly the Charleston Free Library and served as a public library until the early 1960s when it reverted to a private residence. and spent over $5 million renovating it. The New York Post noted that it has "a picturesque piazza and 18th-century French toilets." In 2013, the Preservation Society of Charleston gave Altschul a Pro Merito Award/Carolopolis Award for her renovation of the house, and it was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2014. In addition to the main house, there is a kitchen building and separate coach house on the Mikell House premises. ==Involvement with Southern Charm==

When Altschul's son, producer Whitney Sudler-Smith, decided to create a reality TV show about life in Charleston, he urged his mother to participate. In Southern Charm, Patricia plays "the resident madcap grande dame," She provides sometimes snarky comments about the misdeeds of younger cast members. Patricia said she hasn't lost any sleep over how she'll be portrayed. “I frankly don’t care,” she says. “I always say exactly what I think and they can do what they want. I just don’t want them putting up any ugly pictures of me.” ==References==