Bakonyi was born in
Budapest, Hungary, and was Jewish. He met his wife Vera at a function in high school. He attended law school and fenced at
Budapesti EAC in Budapest, graduating with a law degree in 1956 at the
Faculty of Law of
Eötvös Loránd University and trained for the
modern pentathlon (épée fencing, swimming, horseback riding, shooting, and cross country running). In 1957 he and Vera immigrated to Canada from Hungary. They married in
Vancouver, Canada, in 1959. His sons Ron Bakonyi and David Bakonyi fenced for Canada, in the late 1980s and early 1990s. David was a member of the Canadian National Fencing Team from 1993 to 1995, and fenced in three
Fencing World Championships, and won a gold medal in team epee at the
1989 Maccabiah Games and a silver medal at the
1997 Maccabiah Games in Israel. ==Fencing career==