In 1964, he married Cheray Zauderer, a divorced Manhattan socialite with whom he eventually had three children. As a wedding gift, her father gave them a
Thoroughbred yearling named Mr. Right. The colt became one of only four
racehorses to win both the U.S.
West Coast's Santa Anita Handicap and the
East Coast's Woodward Stakes. After his divorce from Zauderer, in 1985 Duchin married
Brooke Hayward, with whom he had been living since 1981. The couple maintained a loft in New York City and a house in
Washington, Connecticut in
Litchfield County,
Connecticut. In 1996 he published his memoir,
Ghost of a Chance. In 2008 Hayward and Duchin announced their separation, and they eventually divorced. Duchin married Virginia Coleman over the 2012 Memorial Day weekend in East Hampton. == References ==