Adoption is a permanent, legal transfer of parental rights and responsibilities from child's birth parents to the adoptive parents. Pregnant women looking to place their child up for adoption might have options as to how much involvement they wish to have in choosing the adoptive parents, depending on the law in the jurisdiction where the adoption takes place. Some families may choose an
open adoption, which can allow the birth parents contact through phone calls, letters, or live meetings. Despite the name, open adoptions are not always enforceable, depending on the jurisdiction - adoptive parents may withdraw consent to contact at any point. Others may choose a
closed adoption, which does not allow the birth parents access to their child. Nonetheless, birthmothers choosing to put their child up for adoption are legally terminating their parental rights to the child. Adoption laws differ state by state; adoption agencies, counselors, and lawyers can be used to provide information to the birth parents and adoptive parents about this process. == Choosing to parent ==