His first wife was Raja Puan Besar of Perak Raja Nor Mahani binti Almarhum Raja Shahar Shah (18 October 1942 – 3 October 2017); they have a son, Raja Shah Azman, and a daughter, Raja Nor Azwina. Jaafar's second wife was former model Che’ Puan Hazleza Ishak (1976–2002), a divorcée with children whom he married in January 2002 in Thailand. On 11 October 2002, her body was found bound and gagged at the foot of a waterfall, with evidence suggesting she had been strangled and then thrown from a bridge in a jungle clearing. She had been dragged from her car and abducted in broad daylight on 6 October. Jaafar's first wife, Raja Nor Mahani, was detained and questioned by the police over the incident for six days and released without any charges. A
bomoh, a palace aide, a carpenter and a fisherman were each sentenced to 20 years in prison for manslaughter while another
bomoh was sentenced to 14 years. After the death of his first wife, he married Raja Puan Mahkota of Perak
Raja Nazhatul Shima on 12 January 2019. Following their marriage, she was granted the title of Raja Puan Besar of Perak. She had been widowed since the death of her first husband in 2017. ==Ancestry==