Rameshwari was born on 10 December 1886 in the wealthy family of Narendra Nath at Lahore. Narendra Nath (born 1864) was bestowed with "Deevan Bahadur" title in 1908 and was the first Indian to be appointed as the Commissioner of Lahore division in 1911. However, his position was taken back after
Sir Reginald Craddock (the then Home Minister of India) restricted any Indians to hold the position of Commissioner. To please his ego, he was bestowed with the title of "Raja Narendra Nath". His father, Rameshwari's grandfather was Dewan Baij Nath, was also into administrative services; but died early on a pilgrimage in 1875. Her great grandfather was Dewan Ajodhia Prasad, who served as military commander under Maharaja
Ranjit Singh. Later, he received jagir and monthly pension from British administration. Rameshwari had three sisters and a brother Anand Kumar. In 1902, she married
Brijlal Nehru, a nephew of
Motilal Nehru and cousin of the first prime minister of independent India,
Jawaharlal Nehru. Her son
Braj Kumar Nehru was an Indian civil servant who served as governor of several states. ==Awards and honours==