Shapiro-Barnum grew up in three households in
Brooklyn, raised by five gay parents: two fathers and three mothers. His parents jokingly called him the "Mayor of Everywhere" in reference to his outgoing nature and desire to talk to people. He began taking an
improv class in third grade, beginning a string of formal acting activity that would continue through his graduation from
Boston University in 2021 with a
BFA in acting. After a 2020
study abroad program in
Madrid was cut short due to the
COVID-19 pandemic, Shapiro-Barnum returned to Brooklyn where he became involved in the
Black Lives Matter protests in New York City. He filmed a scripted talk show called
The Social Distance with his fathers through
The Tank, followed by an unscripted show titled
How Are You Doing Right Now? in which he interviewed strangers on the
sidewalk, and a similar show called ''I'm Interested'' in which he played
truth or dare with strangers. In 2021, while editing dog videos for online
production company Doing Things Media, Shapiro-Barnum decided to begin a project focused on children's ability to remain positive during the pandemic. He successfully pitched the idea to management, and the media company provided him with a
producer,
editor and platform for what would become
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