Born on June 25, 1816, Palmer was the seventh of nine children born to Asa and Abigail Palmer, who farmed two miles north of
Geneva, New York. She attended a
female seminary in Geneva. She was well-traveled for her time, visiting
Chicago,
Michigan,
Philadelphia,
New York City and
New England in her 20s. Her parents became
Quakers when she was a child, and for the rest of her life she attended the
Junius Monthly Meeting, although she did not officially join. Palmer and her family were influenced by Quakerism's anti-slavery and gender equality values; Asa Palmer was an abolitionist and the Palmer family hosted in their home
escaped slaves fleeing to Canada. Through the Junius Monthly Meeting, Palmer met several other abolitionists and suffragists, including
Mary Ann M'Clintock, and she heard lectures from
Sojourner Truth, among others. She also attended the 1848 commencement ceremony of
Geneva Medical College, where Palmer witnessed the graduation of the first woman medical school graduate (
Elizabeth Blackwell) and one of the first Native American medical school graduates (
Wa-o-wa-wa-na-onk). ==Seneca Falls Convention==