Stolley's first marriage was to Anne Shawber, a newspaper reporter. She had been "pinned" to him while she was a guest editor at
Mademoiselle. Together, they had four children: Hope, Martha, Lisa, and Melinda. They divorced due to Stolley's infidelity. His subsequent marriage to
Lise Hilboldt also ended in divorce. Stolley died on June 16, 2021, at a hospital in
Evanston, Illinois. He was 92, and suffered from a heart ailment prior to his death. ==References==